Question 1

Will you make me cry?

Accepted Answer

I frequently get the request to make a client cry. While I have had several clients who have cried and even wept, crying is an emotional response that must come from the individual. If this is something you want to experience, I can walk you through a good cry during your punishment, but ultimately it is emotionally up to you. Email me and we can discuss this further.

Question 2

Do you spank males?

Accepted Answer

No. I provide discipline for Females and M/F couples.

Question 3

How much does it cost?

Accepted Answer

First sessions are always free. This will give you the ability to determine if we are a good fit before you invest anything monetarily.

Question 4

Do you use a safe-word?

Accepted Answer

Yes, a safe-word will be provided to you before being disciplined at your request. Many of the women who see me don't wish to have a safe-word and want a genuine spanking experience that they wish to see through until the end.

Question 5

What else should I know?

Accepted Answer

Spankings hurt, especially when your bottom is bare. It's normal to regret your decision to be spanked during it, especially when it nears your tolerance limits. I can assure you that after it's over and you have time to reflect, it will be an experience you will never forget. Remember, a real spanking begins when you want it to stop. That is the moment change can happen.

Question 6

Can I bring a friend?

Accepted Answer

Absolutely. You may bring anyone you like to your session, as long as they are comfortable witnessing a real spanking being administered. They can also be spanked with you.

Question 7

Do you have an age limit?

Accepted Answer

You need to be 18+ and in good health.

Question 8

Do you ever give maintenance spankings?

Accepted Answer

Absolutely. I fully understand that many women don't wish to be spanked all the time. They might have partners who aren't interested, and because of this they start to crave a spanking. Simply schedule a session with me whenever the urge comes around.

Question 9

Do you spank so hard that you draw blood?

Accepted Answer

If skin ever breaks, the spanking will immediately stop unless it's a judicial punishment.

Question 10

I want to experience a spanking but I can't have any marks. Is that possible?

Accepted Answer

Yes, that's not a problem. Obviously, you can't experience a genuine punishment spanking and expect not to have marks. But that doesn't mean you can't experience an introduction spanking without any marks. Just let me know.

Question 11

Will you use restraints if the spankee requests it?

Accepted Answer

Yes, you can be firmly secured in place so you see your punishment all the way through.

Question 12

Do you switch?

Accepted Answer

No, I am a spanker and switching isn't something I entertain.

Question 13

Is sexual contact expected?

Accepted Answer

No, I am a spanker/disciplinarian.

Question 14

I really want to go through with a session but I'm scared, is that normal?

Accepted Answer

Yes, that is normal. Spankings hurt and you will be in a vulnerable situation. That requires a lot of trust, and I will not do anything to break that trust. I can assure you of your safety. Just know this: I'm a spanker who administers spankings; I don't give beatings.

Question 15

I deserve to be whipped, is that something you do?

Accepted Answer

Yes, I'm very experienced using a bull whip and my favorite, the dragon tail. You can choose to have an authentic whipping across your back or bottom.

Question 16

I love my wife and I can't raise my hand to her. Her behavior is out of control sometimes. Will you discipline her for me?

Accepted Answer

Yes, as long as she consents to me being the disciplinarian on your behalf. After that, simply send her to me to be dealt with. When she returns home to you, she will behave like a lady should.

Question 17

I would prefer to not have any communication or discussion but to simply be spanked, is this something you entertain?

Accepted Answer

Yes, we will skip all the pleasantries. You know why you're here and we will get straight to business when you arrive. You will be spanked and then sent home without a discussion.

Question 18

I'm in a relationship, does that matter to you?

Accepted Answer

No, I consider myself the same as a masseuse, so your relationship status is no concern of mine. Sometimes partners don't entertain this need, or they don't do it in a meaningful way. This doesn't change how much you love them, but it can leave you frustrated and sad.

Question 19

Will you roleplay?

Accepted Answer

Yes, please provide me with the situation you wish to experience in detail and I will accommodate.

Question 20

Can I bring my own implement?

Accepted Answer

Yes. If there is an implement you wish to be spanked with, just bring it with you. That way, when you get home, every time you look at that implement it will remind you of the spanking you received.

Question 21

Do I have to be spanked on my bare bottom?

Accepted Answer

No. That said, an authentic spanking is always administered on the bare bottom for the full experience. If you're not quite ready for that, your first session can be given over your jeans or over your panties — whichever feels most comfortable to start with.

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